Can You See It?
A helpful tool in jump starting your thinking patterns is visualization. What is it you want in your life? What do you want to choose as your life experiences? Okay, now use your imagination! Visualize it! See it in your mind's eye.
You could also write down what you want for your life. This will help you in focusing your energy on what you want, not what you don't want. Take a journal, write out phrases like:
•"I am-- <the kind of person you want to be>."
•"I have --<good things you would like to receive in your life>."
•"I feel-- <the way you want to feel everyday >."
•Remember, Your thoughts are you and determines how you feel!
•Write down anything that brings you joy and happiness. Focus only on what you want and avoid worrying about what you don't want. If you focus on what you don't want, that is what you will attract!
Use the above suggestions as reminder statements in your visualization practices. Carry this journal with you and as you have free time, open it and use it to focus your energy on the life you want to attract.
All Your Heart Desires
Continue to use visualization every day. Imagine your ideal life and all the pieces that fit into the picture you are painting for yourself. Feel its presence as though you have it right now. Soon you will see subtle changes in your life circumstances. Things that you desire will start making their way into your reach. You will witness your life changing before your eyes if you stick with it and believe that you have the power to change your reality just by changing your perception.
Can You FEEL It?
Okay, now for a key part to getting the life you want. How do you feel right now? If you feel good then you are on the right track to attracting what you want. On the other hand, if you feel bad then your most important job is to change that feeling first. Do whatever it takes to feel happy. Go for a drive, a walk, or a jog. Listen to good music, read an encouraging book, or write about what makes you thankful. Call a supportive friend, paint, do yoga, or draw. Do what makes your heart sing. After all, you can only attract good things into your life when you feel good about yourself and your life.
Spread Your Wings and Try It Out
As I have shown, positive thoughts are very powerful. Know that everyone possesses the power to attract great things. It makes no difference who you are, what you've done, what your life is like now, or what anybody has done to you; only you have control over your life. If you are not satisfied with your life, change it and never look back. The past is irrelevant; only the here and now is significant. So start now.
*If you scroll up, I've selected a few books that can help you get started using the law of attraction! I personally love The Secret. I carry the book around with me everywhere to keep me focused on what I want to achieve through the law of attraction.