of these ideas I am referring to do not make sense because thoughts, beliefs and ultimately what we see in life, is subjective to each person.
It seems like the ideas and beliefs that make sense; those like the teachings in the Bible and the law of attraction, get lost in translation from person to person until we have ideas that are based of each person's emotional dependencies/fears and nothing to do with the real meanings. I explain this more in my post called Where Our Feelings Come From.
Some thoughts lead to positivity and some help in denying that we are ultimately our worst enemies. I would like to share the top five lessons I have learned that help me create a functional idea out of the confusion in society and the beliefs that are forced down our throats. These are ideas that help me see an equal view in a world full of fear, confusion and "news".
1) Give back!
This can be subjective to one's thoughts and beliefs more than any other tip, but it is probably something you have heard in many ways. Clichés like, do to others as you would want them to do to you, or "in helping others, we shall help ourselves" were told to me throughout my life.
I don't think people really grasp the idea behind it. I feel as they understand the words but the meanings get lost when related to their emotional state of mind. Our minds take these words and translate it into what we know or what helps us cope in our lives. Some people may take the phrase "in helping others, we shall help ourselves" as they should devote their every waking moment to others at the sake of their state of mind. This would only be to service a fear or feeling of what they should or should not do to "be a good person." It has nothing to do with the true meaning of the quote, which is only a translated idea from someone else in the first place.
The reason is more than good karma!
The reason behind giving back is a little more scientific for me. It is more than just something I have heard about and is based on not only real life, but how our mind works. This is the law of attraction in our minds. I will say this work's in more of a way than "it's just good karma." Every time you choose to selflessly give back this has the same effect as programming your mind with the attitude that you are worthy of what you want from life. When you believe you are worthy, you will get what you desire because you have put your mind in a position to receive!
You could say it in a different way, the reason a person would not give back is due to fear that you will not have enough so they hold on tight to what they have. You set your fate of living a less than life by acknowledging your fears and reinforcing these ideas. Giving back tells your mind that your fears are no longer in power and by doing that, your fear cannot control you. This is like two positives in one action, you are happier by confronting your fears; therefore your brain is able to accept more into your life. The net effect is you have more by giving something back.
This works on a mental level. Your whole life experience, including everything you do, become a product of your positive outlook you have chosen to make inside your head. Look at the last sentence closely, I said chosen because you choose to think and feel the way you do by accepting that is reality. When investigated, you find that it is nothing more than a series of repressed fears that you are not aware are there.
This also works on a level of energy!
I also believe that we are just energy and must give as much as we receive. We don't have a choice on this because our energy is part of a bigger picture of life. The lives we live and experience are a minute speck of the energy in comparison to the energy we are a part of.
Like the ever changing, bigger power source of energy that we are a part of (the universe), the one that is always trying to find equalization; what we receive is a product of what part of our lives we give back the energy we take in. Example: If you give back money, you are telling your brain that you are confident, you will receive more so in turn. This state of mind will set you up to accept more money or whatever you give back when an opportunity arrives.
If you were to accept the money and choose to not give any back, then you must compensate by giving your energy to another source i.e. devoting extra time back into your work or make your customer feel appreciated in another way. This works in all aspects of life and if forgotten will lead to the energy going somewhere you are not aware of. A good example may be possibly going broke from the sabotage of feeling you will never have enough therefore never making anything more out of life. Another way your energy will equalize itself is it may come out as exaggerated anger towards another. Either way, your selfish mind's emotional unawareness of itself and its feelings will keep you playing the victim instead of making your life what you what it to be.
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